Betrayal and Infidelity Counseling
After she went to sleep…
You stayed up looking at images on your phone – all while lying next to her. The pleasure you feel in the moment does not compare to the intensity of guilt you immediately experience.
You wonder, “How could I keep doing this to her, to us?”
You travel for your work.
No one will ever find out what happens on those business trips.
Until you bring home something no spouse wants to receive.
How will you tell her? What will happen?
The guilt and shame is overwhelming.
Your spouse wonders why you seem so disconnected and distant.
One night, she picks up the phone and looks at your viewing history and the text messages.
Now she knows the answer, and she is devastated, thinking, “How could you?”
Is she going to leave you?
She has never felt so betrayed.
Will she be willing to try to work it out? Or will you be left alone with your behaviors?
Perhaps it’s time to seek professional help.
Therapy can provide that help.
Witzki Counseling offers betrayal and infidelity trauma counseling. If you are struggling in this area, there’s an 80% chance that you experienced abandonment, abuse, or neglect, and that you are struggling with intimacy.
You can lose everything, including yourself, or you can do the work and reclaim the person you want to be; you may even be able to save your marriage. We will provide understanding, empathy, compassion, and education to this area of your life.
Obtaining SATP certification and specializing in marriage and family counseling, we have the training and experience to help walk this path with you. There is hope, and you can change your behaviors and heal yourself and your relationship.
Regaining intimacy is possible.
We have witnessed freedom working with many couples and individuals in this area. We have seen a new love in relationships because the behaviors are no longer present, and we have witnessed intimacy and the growth of couples they never experienced.
“Abandonment (by choice, betrayal, or death) can go very deep into the heart of a man or woman. When you positively reinforce the brain it just keeps wanting you to repeat the behavior. Regardless of how long you have lived an out-of-control, secret life, you can take steps to be in control again.”
– Dr. Doug Weiss
The decision to become healthy belongs to you. You can overcome this behavior by admitting the truth and taking committed, decisive action steps toward the life you, your spouse, and your family deserve.
You can find healing and peace. Please reach out and contact us today.